Monday, January 16, 2006

Nightmare on our street

Honey and I talk to each other several times a day. He calls, I say hi, or how is your day going, what are you up too or what time will you be home? Really, to say a whole bunch of nothing but that's just what we do, always have and I love it.

On a morning last week he calls only to ask me, "Honey, do you still love me?" Oh man, I'm thinking he's having a mid life crisis or he was struck in the head very hard with a large object and doesn't recall who he is. I answer him, laughing naturally, "Of course. What kind of question is that?" He tells me that he is just checking. He then admits that he had a dream but couldn't get into just then. Great. Now, I have to wait the entire day to find out what I've done in this dream to cause such a question.

Finally, he's home. Greeted with the usual kiss and a little extra. (my, my what have I done?) He begins telling me...we were at a get together with some friends. After everyone left this gathering, we were left with the hosting couple. Apparently we were friendly with these people. We are just chatting and watching TV, when I excuse myself and go to the bathroom. The male half of the hosting couple did the same thing, only he went into the kitchen to get popcorn. So he said. Honey, being the tack he is, realizes we were both gone and for way to long. Then he hears me make a sound that he is very familiar with and decides to investigate the situation. He enters the kitchen and there he finds me in a compromising position on the kitchen counter with Mr. Man. (oh man, WHAT?) He leave the kitchen and then the house. He reaches for the door to close it behind him and wakes up.

I'm am now hysterical. He tells me that it was so real. When he woke, his heart was pounding and he was sweating. It's nice to know I still have such an effect on him. As for me having an affair? NEVER! I have never once, ever thought about having an affair. Man, even if I did....where would I ever find the time?

“Marriage is not a simple love affair, it's an ordeal, and the ordeal is the sacrifice of ego to a relationship in which two have become one"

- Joseph Campbell


Blogger Christie said...

I had a dream once where my hubby kissed a women in front of me. I stayed angry with him for a week!

7:06 PM  
Blogger momma of 2 said...

Is it amazing what our dreams do to us?

7:12 PM  
Blogger Bossy♥'s YOU said...

i hate those kinda dreams, the ones that leave you wondering whats goin on..

my hubby has those dremas about me too..I tell him..If i was gonna have an afair ( which I never would and have never thought about either) it would not be in his dream...haha

and i wouldnt have the time either, I barley have enough time for the man I got..

8:12 PM  
Blogger Meow said...

It's wonderful that he still obviously loves you so much that a dream like that would affect him in such a way. You are very lucky. I'm with you though, I wouldn't even consider having an affair ... I made my wedding vows and will stick to them for life. That's just me.
Take care,

1:17 AM  
Blogger Anne said...

Oh no-the poor guy!

Those dreams SUCK.

4:27 AM  
Anonymous MOM said...


Tell hony he has nothing to worry about, if there were any two people that belongs together it is you two. But you, it is nice to know that he still loves you so much you are very blessed woman.
God bless you both.

5:07 AM  
Blogger cubmommy said...

I hate those dreams. I have had them about Hubby and he has had them about me. I know that we would never do that to each other but it still bothers us having those dreams.

I love the quote.

6:01 AM  
Blogger Spikey1 said...

I dream about hitting the walkoff homerun in the world series!

6:28 AM  
Blogger Becky..Absent Minded Housewife said... don't want to come upstairs and see me sometime?

8:56 AM  
Anonymous nancy said...

WOW! That is freaky...

Love that quote.

8:56 AM  
Blogger Cathy said...

My husband and I make calls like this to one another all day long as well.
Every now and then he has a dream like this and does the same thing.
Have a great Monday.

9:59 AM  
Blogger ***Double_Oh_No*** said...

Dreams like that actually ruined a previous relationship I was in. The ex was ALWAYS having those dang dreams and he could seem to never get over them, though they couldn't have been farther from the truth.

On the flipside, don't you just love those dreams where really *GOOD* things are happening and the waking-up part is what stinks!?

10:04 AM  
Blogger vani said...

i'm always the one having those crazy dreams about my honey..i wake up all pissed at him. this lasts usually all day

10:17 AM  
Blogger Suz said...

Sounds like a dream I would have and then go ask my hubby if he still loves me.

Love the quote!

Hugs Suz

1:45 PM  
Blogger candyfortheteacher said...

My husband does that somethimes and it makes feel lucky that he loves enough to want to be with me.

4:24 PM  
Blogger The Daily Rant said...

Well, if Honey WERE to find you with another guy, it would DEFINITELY be in a compromising position on the kitchen counter. Those of us who know you best, KNOW that you're not very convential in that department!

Oh, did you tell him about Kenny yet? :)

6:59 PM  
Blogger DrM2B said...

I think it rocks that he was so bothered to both call U and tell U the whole dream. Its obvious hes still so in love with U....U rewarded him right?? **wink wink**

12:11 AM  
Blogger bon said...

Mr. Dadguy doesn't remember much when it comes to dreams but boy has HE caught holy heck for his shennanigans in MY dreams! I tend to stay pretty mad even when I wake up.

12:45 PM  
Blogger Lala's world said...

I think it is cute that you phone each other, my husband and I do that too and we have the cell phone bills to prove it!!!

12:44 PM  
Blogger AL said...

DH & I have dreams like that, too. It is very disturbing how real the dreams feel. Take advantage of the extra TLC :)

7:49 PM  
Anonymous angie said...

Love the quote!!

Poor honey! Sounds like that dream really got the best of him!

12:44 PM  

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